if you were to choose one quality needed to maintain a relationship, what would it be?

its hard to choose, definitely. but i think trust. obviously without it everything will be kaput, kapish and fin. hehe, but seriously, if there's not trust then why bother?

i was chatting with my friend yesterday when he saw me personalized message on msn. he asked "tired, with what?". he thought i'm getting tired of the bf. and i'm like "noooooo. i mean i do get tired sometimes of him. but its normal to feel that way. i still love him very very much." seeing that statement coming out of my mouth somehow seems like a shocking news to him. he never thought that i could be this loyal to someone. we used to date in high school, but i ended it because he wants me to be more lovey dovey, which is so not me la kan dulu. to think again, the slightest mistake made would have me turn off. haha, bad bad person. but it's all different when i met him. (aaaawwwwwww!) yeah seriously!

the uniqueness of our relationship is because we tell each other everything. and i mean EVERYTHING. and i know though sometimes he's such a pain in the you know where, deep down i know i'm still his no 1 priority. its just that mengade je nk gadoh gadoh. hehe.

to be understanding is also a good quality. but not to an extent that instead of spending time with you w, you're spending time with the guys playing CS just coz you're going back tomorrow when before this the guys had 4 days with him. and the gf? 1/2 days + 1/2 days = 1 day. 1 day 4 days 1 day 4 days. pisses me off when i heard that. hmph.

and one thing, i hate it when i became so mellow and soft whenever we have a misunderstanding/fights. i hate it i hate it! girls. sigh...

and now, the purpose of this post is...... i have no idea! girls! sigh...