there's a friend of mine from school, just broke up with her gf of 5 years and he was saying how it hurts him (i dont know the whole story about their relationship). He wrote down what he's been feeling and all but i can't help it but to agree with something he said in his notes. He said something about how sometimes after you've been hurt so much, it somehow changes the person. He/she becomes a totally different person but they insisted that they remain the same. I cant help it but to agree with the statement. Hmmm.