got this from Friendster's bulletin: thanks to my brother.

When we meet the right person to love
when we're at the right place at the right time.
That's CHANCE.

When you meet someone you're attracted to,
that's not a choice.
That's CHANCE.

Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together because of this)
is not a choice. That's also a CHANCE.

The difference is what happens afterward. When will you take that infatuation, that crush,
that mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down
and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.

If you decide to love a person, even with his/her faults, that's not a chance. That's CHOICE.

When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's CHOICE.

Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's CHOICE.

Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by CHANCE.

But true love that lasts is truly a CHOICE. A choice that we make.

Regarding soulmates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this : "Fate
brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen."

I do believe that soulmates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you. But it's still up
to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or not.

WE MAY MEET OUR SOULMATES BY CHANCE, BUT... LOVING AND STAYING WITH OUR SOULMATES IS STILL A CHOICE WE HAVE TO MAKE.
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it's true isn't it? life is all about chance and choices. everyday when you wake up in the morning, you'll have decide what to do, what to wear and what not. everyday goes by with you making choices and meeting chances and it's all up to you. and make sure that no one forces you in making the decision, no matter how long it will take, take your time and think. god gives you brain for a reason. so think! and all the decisions you'll make will determine your future.

sigh

good luck to us!