memories

we met for the first time in rasta, or rather he saw me for the first time in rasta. he was with his group of friends and i was hanging out with mine. next day i was in kedah when i received a call from an unfamiliar no. turned out it was his friend, asking me to come to a bbq but i told him i'm in kedah.
the next thing i knew, i started msging with.. one of his friend! so we dated for a while, till i turned him down for someone i know in matrix, where we turned out being friends instead. so next thing i knew, another friend of his contacted me. after a while, he said i was too short (hmphh, he was tall and thin anyway!)
i was back in bandar utama when i get a call from another unfamiliar no. so it seems that another friend of his called me using his number, saying that he wanted to get to know me. and at that time, he was too shy. even shy to talk to me. i still have the video of the whole conversation though. =) later at night, somehow i messaged him, asking who he is and all. and after that.. it's history.
he called, he messaged, every single night without fail. and one fine day, we met up in one utama. i was with my cousin, and he was with his friends. it was a fast one, saying we have to go back (i was shy at that time). after 2 months (yes it was that long!) he finally asked me out. i was nervous, and even more nervous when i saw that he's driving a BMW! so off we went to bukit kiara for starlite cinema; stuck on you and school of rock, our first 2 movies. we had fun. and after that we went for a quick supper in hartamas, he was super quick! wanted to take photos of me with his camera phone. me with my brothers nokia 8210.
since then, we went out more and more. i still remember right before i went to UiTM for orientation, we had breakfast in McD Centrepoint. lucikly, he was in UiTM too! so we pretty much meet up every day i guess. i wasn't ready to settle down as yet, as i just broke up with my boyfriend in matrix a month before THE phone call. but we still went out. but i have another option in UiTM. though it was nothing much, told him about it and he got mad (we're in o.u at that time) saying that i have to choose between the two of them. then after much considerations, i chose him. as we went out from o.u i asked him if he wants to go steady with me and he said yes. then, i said ok, let's do it then! so i asked him! before this, he keeps asking me but i told him i'm not ready and i wanted some time to get to know him before i made up my mind. so there it is, he waited for me for 6 months before i finally became his gf. (i was the first btw)
and now, its almost to 3 years. though there have been break ups, but there's also make ups. there's fights, yelling, slamming the door, everything! i'm definitely blessed to have him in my life. there's also his loving family. i just adore the father! his family have been super duper nice to me, and mine have been super duper nice to him as well. and right now, though i have doubt in his feelings, he made it clear that i am the only one he loves. no one else. and thats just a relief.
=) and as for me, he'll be the only one for me. his love came unexpectedly. and i'm glad that God have given me a chance to know him and his family and be a part of his life. though i always questioned him, why didn't he fight and get to know me first and not his friends, and he said "i know that if you're destined to be mine, i need not do anything drastic and i'll still have you regardless" awwww..

i love that budak busuk so much! sigh.....