how would you treat your best friends? you make him/her feel extra special, you give extra attention to him/her, you share everything you know regarding studies or what not with him/her, practically treat her more than any ordinary friends. right?
then what do you call a friend who are always using you every time she gets? claiming that she is your best friend, and what you say matters the most. it is sad thinking that 3 years of friendship ended up this way isn't it? i know that i'm not much of a friend, yes i spend too much time with my bf that i neglect my friends. but i always make it a point to at least msg them once in a while; regardless through friendster.com or through the hp. its the thought that count right?
then why there are some people who tries so hard to fit in with other people? tried so hard to please others. tried so hard to be like other people. oh god! i hope i'm not that kind of friend. if i am please tell me. tried so hard to please the other gender. tried so hard (not sure intentionally or unintentionally) to keep hints or to share past years or to share knowledge with people she claims her best friend. yes i admit, she is smart. but if i were her, i would be honored to teach other people. just think of this way, you help others, not only he/she will help you back but everything you know will also be blessed by God.
take others stuff to somewhere else without letting the owner know about it. borrowed people's clothers and other stuff every chance she gets. having that "ketat face" every single time she comes home. stain or damage other people's stuff then RETURN it to the owner without saying sorry! without having the intention of repairing or to at least replace the clothes, tudung and so on and so forth.
ya Allah, please keep me away from this kind of people. surround me with those who are pure. i feel cheated dear God, have never felt this way. please keep me away from this people. Amin.
to asm_ha_ie,
don't you feel embarrassed with what you have done? don't you feel the pain of losing friends, the pain of knowing that everyone hates you? sedar la diri tu sikit, with that kind of attitude, yes i am sure you will go far in your career, but trust me, you will ended up alone. seriously. please change your attitude. the advice from the other seems like nothing to you kan? yes no doubt we did have fun, but enough is enough, i could not take it anymore. i forgive you for everything you've done. but trust me, the pain is too deep and there's no way that we will be like how we used to be. trust me. go and find yourself a new best friend, matter of fact, find someone from the other gender, i'm sure you would like that kan? don't come running to us when others treat you bad too. we will never accept you back in our life. the past is the past, and now i'm looking forward to see only the future.
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